• Are you struggling to get your needs met in your relationship?
  • Do you keep getting in the same arguments with your partner?
  • Are you and your partner speaking different languages / not able to communicate successfully?
  • Are your past relationships getting in the way of your present one?

Successful relationships take time, effort and courage. As our lives get busier, we focus less on our relationships. As we seek more physical comforts, we can become less open and honest.

How much time, effort and courage are you investing in your relationship? It’s worth the effort. Research shows that couples with satisfying relationships live longer – when we reveal ourselves to each other we live healthier, more vital lives and have less dis-ease.

Counselling for Couples

Great relationships are based on a solid underlying friendship and the extent to which the needs of both partners are being met – and this requires constant re-negotiation! We teach others how to treat us and this is why we must look at how we are with ourselves first. This is the blueprint for all our relationships. And once you improve your relationship with yourself you can focus on what you want (and don’t want) with others.

How I Work With Couples

When I work with couples I request that we meet individually too. The reason for this is that what you bring into your relationships often has nothing whatsoever to do with your partner, other than its negative impact on the relationship! – this is better worked through on an individual basis.

A couple session will typically last one and a half hours.

You will be asked to take responsibility rather than assign blame and to notice how you are communicating with your partner. You will discover how to speak your partner’s language. You will have an opportunity to say what is true for you (without being interrupted) and you will learn to accept and even celebrate your differences!

“The ultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.” Alexander Penney

Contact Me

Dr Tania Abdulezer - NLP Therapy for Health and Relationships

I am based in Brondesbury Park, London NW2 and I offer a 15 minute free telephone consultation to new clients – contact me now to book yours!

The best way to get started is to complete this simple Contact Form.

I will call you or email you  to answer any questions and arrange our first session.

I look forward to hearing from you.


(Dr. Tania Abdulezer)